Why does my brother act in these ways?

he's your big brother- my big brother is like this sometimes- but I just tell how I feel or talk smack back to him- he's your family- tell him like it is- whenever he does something to pi$$ you off- tell him up front right then- the more you speak up about it or say something negative about him back- he's either gonna quit it or egg you on in a joking way- are you sure he's just not f-ing with you in a stupid funny way?- it sounds like he has respect for you when he talks to your mom- maybe he's just trying to get you to loosen up and talk sh!t back to him- just talk to him about it- he's wondering why you don't visit- tell him why- you shouldn't have to hide your feelings from your family- best wishes!